Living a real life of relationships as a Sex Positive business woman is a interesting endeavor. In the business of Sexuality, as a Sex Educator and Intimacy Coach there is a certain expectation of the populace that we as sex Professionals have “perfect, secure relationships” in our own lives.
The fantasy of the happy couple, who is sexually active in all the ways we wish we could be. “They” must be doing it right, “they” must be happy, un-conflicted…perfect…because they are sharing their wisdom with us, as Professionals.
I have a tale to tell, dear readers….in complete honesty and utter respect. “They”, anyone who is labeled as different or better than, usually has some reality in their closet.
I was listening to a conversation by a fellow sex geek, this morning, who has directly inspired me to get laid. Seriously. The creativity of this person, has directly influenced my sex life. And here I was listening to the reality of being in a ongoing relationship, and the everyday challenges which happen. Wow! I thought, this person is just like me…human…
Please my dear readers…understand…we are people too. We have these amazing stories, wisdom to share because of the experiences of our lives. We have been blessed with the focus, and discipline to honor our passion (which may include facilitation, being of Service, creativity, rebellion…) and we have challenges just like everyone else. The ability to have the tools to address the challenges, now that is where true Mastery comes into play. To be able to Communicate with transparency, honesty, courage…to be inquisitive in relationship, to address whatever facet of life might or might not be working for us…These are the skills we can share with you, as Professionals. And also honor them in our own lives.
Thank you for being here. For sharing this journey, and for seeking your own answers. I am honored to have traveled my own path of relationship, to learn the skills which I offer to you. So that you can have the happiest, healthiest sex life possible. (And sometimes…that means doing the work, digging into the process and coming out a different person on the other side.)
Blessings on your journey.
Touch and Intimacy Coach